Here's a little piece of advice for all you guys out there - most women appreciate honesty. If you're just not into her, let her know. If you were only using her for sex, don't lead her on to think that it was something else. Don't sit here and tell her that, yeah you can't wait to see her again, and then come up with excuses as to why you can't make plans. Don't pull that, yeah you're my girl, then not call or text. Get rid of the damn expectation that women are the ones that should initiate all conversations. Don't sit here and say that you have no feelings for someone and then get all pissy when they're talking to someone else. Try some FUCKING HONESTY for once in your MISERABLY PATHETIC FUCKING LIVES!!! Ok - well obviously that last part isn't for all guys, just for certain people.
My God, do people just not care about how their actions effect others? Do they think that they can play these damn games and that no one will get hurt? It's not fair to the people out there that are actually looking for someone to be with. I just don't fucking get it. Everything is all fine and dandy and then one day, BAM, communication is out the window. Why, because I was interested and you think you have it in the bag? WTF???
Can someone please explain the thought process behind that? Why pretend that you like someone and then not talk to them? It truly boggles the mind.
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Roo,
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the big leagues. This is how the "grown ups" roll.
They pretend to be something they're not. They lie about their past. They never reveal their true selves until it's too late to get out easily.
They take the easy route rather than the proper route.
Men do it, women do it.
I hate to break it to you, but this probably won't be the last time it happens to you.
As the old saying goes "you gotta kiss a lot of frogs........"
McFixer
That's how my ex got his nickname. I told my cousin, "gotta kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince", so for Valentine's Day, C sent me flowers (we were still dating), and signed them, "your favorite toad". So now he's my toad. Interesting nickname, I know.
ReplyDeleteI'm slowly starting to learn the game. I'm lucky in that I actually am a strong person, things might bug me, I'll get sad or vent, but once I decide I'm over it, that's it - it's done. That's how I feel now. :)